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Ripples

Written by Stuart Wickes

I’ve always enjoyed the fact that in England passing cyclists usually acknowledge each other.  Often with a cheery ‘hello’ but at a minimum with a nod or a grunt. So it came as a bit of surprise to be pretty much totally ignored cycling up the Rhine in Germany.

Now while it’s hard to interpret cultural codes, the practices are quickly apparent. Here the rules are:

  • look straight ahead
  • ride past as if no one’s there
  • avoid eye contact
  • say nothing.

Passing cyclists usually acknowledge each other don’t they?

It’s interesting how quickly we took this on board. No one told us to stop saying hello but as is the way with culture, we quickly conformed to the norm.

Now while I’m sure it’s not the intent, the lack of encounter does make riding a little boring, removing the simple joy of human contact that comes from a passing smile, nod, wave or hello. So I decided upon a small counter-cultural experiment.

It takes a bit of oomph to break with norms but the results can be interesting. At first I thought it made no difference at all; the reaction I got remained mostly the silent same. But then Kirstie and Matthew caught me up.

“What did you say to that pack of people?” asked Kirstie.

“Just ‘Allo'” I explained.

“Weird. Because everyone of them said ‘Allo’ to me. And that just doesn’t happen here.”

I wonder where else in life the ripples we send out turn up somewhere else?

Why wouldn’t you say hello?

About the author

Stuart Wickes

Stuart's the adventure addict half of the team, always trying to persuade the family to get out, do more, go further. As co-founder and co-director he handles the business, creative, design, technical and publishing aspects of the project. He is our chief photographer and videographer. With training as a professional learning and development consultant. an engineer and musician, his contribution is eclectic and unpredictable!

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